" Don't betray yourselves till I move, " the Gadfly said softly and clearly.

“在我动之前不要出卖自己，”牛虻轻声而清晰地说。

It's about knowing that no matter who you are in a relationship with, you are in with yourself and you can't betray yourself to make a relationship work.

无论和谁处于恋爱关系，都不能让你背叛自己来维持这一段关系。