So there, you are saying, well, it will be this one or that one.

所以在那里，你是说，好吧，它将是这个或那个。

Whenever they feel miserable, they think it must be this one, or that one or that one or that one.

每当他们感到痛苦时，他们想一定是因为这个或那个。

So, these are some of the points to keep in mind when you have to choose this one or that one.

所以， 当你必须选择这个或那个时， 这些是要记住的一些要点。

It's time that instead of just educating our children, just make a living, just to find a job, just to get into this one or that one, we have to educate our children to first of all enhance themselves.

是时候了，不要教育孩子赚钱就行，找个工作就行，干这个或干那个就行。我们要教育孩子们的是，最首要的是提升自己。