(2) Less in-group preference, more universal love.

（2）更少的群内偏好，更多的博爱。

Now, this loving-kindness is not selective; rather it is a universal love for all sentient beings.

这种仁爱不是选择性的；相反，它是对所有有情众生的普遍爱。

Baba, to her, was part of that greater and universal love she longed to enter into.

对她来说，巴巴就是她憧憬的伟大的普世之爱。

To wrap it up: the benefits of not belonging are ultimate freedom, less ingroup preference which could lead to more universal love, and self-actualization above conformity.

当一个局外人的好处是终极自由，减少可能导致更多普遍爱的内在偏好，以及超越从众的自我实现。

So here's a trillion-dollar question: How can we better tap into the incredible potential of families and their universal love for their children?

所以这里有一个价值万亿美元的问题：我们如何才能更好地挖掘家庭不可思议的潜力以及他们对孩子的普遍爱？