If you shut yourself off from love, you'll miss out on that woman, and the happiest times of your life.

如果你把自己关在爱的门外，你就会错过这个女子，和你生命中最快乐的时光。

Grey as your first choice means that you want to shut yourself off from everything and remain uncommitted, so that you can swing with opinion and emotions.

灰色排在第一位意味着你想要逃避一切事物，不会做出任何承诺，以便可以摇摆于各种观点与感情之间。