Those who like Victorian family houses and furniture might secretly welcome a return to more rigid social norms.

那些喜欢维多利亚式家庭住宅和家具的人也许在心底里欢迎更为严格的社会规范。

Boys are held to absurd, rigid norms of masculinity --told to renounce the feminine emotionality of sadness or fear and to embrace aggression and anger as markers of real manhood.

男孩们被要求具有荒谬、僵硬的男子气概——被告知摒弃悲伤或恐惧的所谓的女性情感，并采用侵略性和愤怒来作为真正的男子汉的标志。