Now, swap over and listen to the other person.现在,互换一下位置,听听对方怎么说。I thought I would get the job, but the other person who was being considered for it had experience on his side.我觉得我能得到那份工作,但另外那个候选人有经验方面的优势。Accusations are likely to put the other person on the defensive.控告很可能使对方陷入被动。