When there is a relationship breakdown with their parents, children with an anxious attachment style scream and cry to get their parents to come back.

当与父母的关系破裂时，焦虑依恋型儿童会叫喊、会哭泣，让父母回来。

Most people first encounter silence in bereavement, and that in relationship breakdown and in death and that seems to be about the worst place to start.

大多数人第一次经历沉默是在丧亲之痛时，在关系破裂时，是在死亡之时，而这似乎是最糟糕的起点。

Here she explains more to BBC World Service's, The Why Factor: Most people first encounter silence in bereavement, in relationship breakdown and in death and that seems to be about the worst place to start.

她对BBC全球服务节目The Why Factor做了更多解释：大多数人是在丧亲，关系破裂以及他人的死亡中首次经历清寂。那似乎是最糟糕的开始。