And how do you match that and marry that up to what you want?

你如何匹配它并得到你想要的？

You'll have to marry them up, I can't remember which is which, other than that's the one that J likes.

你得把它们结合起来，我不记得哪个是哪个了，只记得杰喜欢的那个。

My mind was humming, marrying up the events of the last months with what I now understood.

我的脑海里嗡嗡作响，将过去几个月发生的事情与我现在所理解的结合起来。

But her sister married my grandfather up in Syracuse, where I'm from.

但是她姐姐和我爷爷是在锡拉库扎锡拉库扎 意大利西西里岛东部一港市结婚的 也就是我的家乡。

But here I am, sitting in my home, married to a woman who's way better than me, I married way up.

但我现在坐在家里，嫁给了一个比我好得多的女人，我嫁给了更高的人。