Sometimes I just have to resort to the carrot and stick approach with my children.有时候我只能对我的孩子们采取软硬兼施的办法。This carrot and stick approach has paid off.这个奖惩并用的方法取得了成效。Congress wants to use a carrot and stick approach to force both sides to negotiate.国会打算软硬兼施迫使双方谈判。