That is not the point in question.

那不是讨论的重点。

Though, on the whole, he was very kind to her, she was perfectly aware of this, and to go beyond the point in question seemed to her really something to live for.

虽然，总的来说，他对她很好，但她完全清楚这一点，而且在她看来，超越这一点似乎真的是值得活着的东西。