Make sure they have a living will, also called an advance directive, that says what they want in terms of end-of-life care and who'll make those decisions if they can't.

确保他们有一份生前遗嘱，也称为预先指示，说明他们在临终关怀方面想要什么，以及如果他们不能做出这些决定，谁将做出这些决定。

Now, you might argue that if Stephanie had written out an advance directive, if Stephanie had come into the hospital unconscious, if the nurse had asked John, " What is it your wife would want? "

现在，你可能会争辩说，如果斯蒂芬妮写了一份预先指示，如果斯蒂芬妮昏迷不醒地进入医院，如果护士问约翰，“你妻子想要什么？”