A cultivated understanding, and an affectionate heart, will never want starched rules of decorum, something more substantial than seemliness will be the result; and, without understanding, the behaviour here recommended, would be rank affectation.

有教养的理解力和深情的心永远不需要刻板的礼仪规则， 结果会比外表更重要； 并且，在不理解的情况下， 这里推荐的行为将是等级矫揉造作。