Near-death experiences actually have a paradoxical effect that makes us feel more alive and awake.

濒死体验其实有一种矛盾的效果，让我们感觉更有活力、更清醒。

And telling these people, " What you're doing is stupid, " " what you're doing is irrational, " " what you're doing is immoral, " can have the paradoxical effect of motivating them to do exactly what you don't want them to do.

“你的所作所为是愚蠢的”、“你的所作所为是不理智的”、“你的所作所为是不道德的”，可能会产生相反的效果，激发他们去做你不想让他们做的事。