When you ask question upon question, you enter what's called " interview mode, " and it's very uncomfortable for the listener.

当你在问题之上再提出问题时，你就进入了所谓的“采访模式”，这会让听的人感到很不舒服。

Sorry, muscle memory kicked in and I went right into job interview mode.

抱歉，肌肉记忆启动了，我直接进入了求职面试模式。

So we suggest very strongly when you're dealing with people, get them into the conversational mode, try to get out of interview mode, just get them talking about things they care about.

所以我们非常强烈地建议你在与人打交道时，让他们进入对话模式，试着摆脱面试模式， 让他们谈论他们关心的事情。