I asked how he was and he started telling me this big tale of woe.我问他过得怎么样，他向我大倒苦水。Jennifer responded with anger and played the martyr role.珍妮弗做出愤怒的反应，开始大倒苦水。When she asked what was bothering him, he welcomed the opportunity to unburden himself.她问他有什么烦恼时，他就抓住这个机会倒苦水。