Try to instead cultivate a friendship with what Hill refers to as the other you.

试着与希尔所说的另一个你建立友谊。

This makes them have far less time to look for new friends and cultivate friendships.

这使得他们寻找新朋友和培养友谊的时间少得多。

She was very good at cultivating friendships.

她非常善于培养友谊。

Fake friendships are not worth the investment required to cultivate friendships, and they don't provide any real value to a person other than momentary entertainment when you're out together.

虚假的友谊不值得培养友谊所需的投资，除了你们在一起时短暂的娱乐之外，它们不会给一个人带来任何真正的价值。

On the whole, smart people are not looking for casual relationships that could come and go at any moment: they're only interested in cultivating friendships with people who they believe add value to their life.

总的来说，聪明人不会寻找随时可能来来去去的随意关系：他们只对与他们认为给他们的生活增加价值的人建立友谊感兴趣。